Challenge: Perfect in 2010

What is true perfection? How can an imperfect being as we begin to define perfect. As a human it is actually unfathomable to truly understand perfection. We strive for it. We talk about it. We even pretend to be it. In reality, perfection is a life-long goal with many lessons, many ups, many downs and many conversations. Yet, we continue in hope of achieving it. In order to achieve this goal, we exercise, diet, go to school, read books, nip, tuck, analyze and over analyze. The truth of the matter is, is that we are far from perfect, but yet perfection lies within all of us. It is a matter of understanding each lesson of life that changes our perspective and ultimately aids in our growth towards perfection. This is the process of life.

Paul, in the Bible, states to the Corinthians in his final greeting to “Aim for perfection” (2 Corinthians 13:11). This is the inherent goal inside human kind. What does it mean to be perfect? What does it mean to be imperfect? There are many facets to imperfection from the physical to the spiritual. All are relative to one’s own ideals, opinions and ultimately perspective. Your friend’s idea of perfection is most likely different than yours. She may think that obtaining a size 2 is close to perfection while you may be fine at a size 8. Either the case, the fact is that perfection has its conditions in your mind.

I am just now realizing that I am a perfectionist. I always disliked that adjective for myself because it seems so posh and unrealistic, but it's true. I try to be the best girlfriend, friend, daughter, co-worker until there is a built up resentment inside of me. I am resentful to these people I try to be perfect for when they never even asked for it. They knew from the beginning that I was not perfect and they still wanted me. With this new epiphany I will try to accept my imperfections while still working on becoming perfect.

I believe that God is perfect (whoever this may be for you). For me it is the Christian God but I am not a crazy, religious Christian. I am just a normal girl full of flaws and hopes for the future. After studying how God is perfect I have realized that He IS certain qualities to 100%, while I am in part. For example, He is love, while I love to a certain degree but I am also unloving. He is truth, while at times I lie. He is trustworthy, while I am not trustworthy all of the time. So, my goal this year 2010 is to practice one quality that God is for one week and write about it. The end result, hopefully, is a more loving, trustworthy me which should spill over into all my relationships. Therefore, creating a happier life and I will be closer to perfection. Because to me, perfection with my boyfriend, my friends and at work will mean that everything is running as it should and all is well in my world.

I will start off this week being more understanding. God is understanding. I will try to understand other people's perspectives this week and to empathize more. Maybe this way I will be less judgmental. I've been told way too many times, "stop judging me!"

Charissa