Some things in my happiness box:
- A few special pictures - my dad and me when I was 10, mom/sis/me all dressed up, Nate/me drinking margs at the Rio.
- The first two months of my calendar when Nate and I first started dating. Our first date at a wine bar. Our second date we went to a Nuggets game. Third date spent all day walking around, drinking and talking in downtown Denver one Sunday. You get the idea...it's nice to remember.
- A pack of cards I made when I was 12 years old with positive affirmations; "You are beautiful."; "Smile.", "Life is what you make it."...you know things that a 12 year old wants to be reminded of so they write down those things on cards. LOL!
So far I have been reminded to fight right! Whenever Nate and I begin to "get into it" I am reminded to fight right. I always want to say 'always' or 'never' but I've stopped myself. It feels so much better the next day knowing that I fought right. I'm seeing that by dealing with the issue at hand is better because the next day I don't have to apologize for things I regretted saying. Instead I just have to apologize about the actual fight and not all the harsh words that would have been said if I had said them...make sense?
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